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Rude boss becomes Appreciating boss

Swarna

Sometimes things seem to get worse before it gets better. But in getting worse the situation tests us and strengthens us in ways we cannot imagine or know.

  • All we need to learn is to sit still and watch our mind as the fluid situation morphs, and shifts.
  • We learn to see our fear, guilt, and our negative tendencies.
  • We learn to be watchful, not restful. We understand that growth, life, is characterized by changes.
  • Situations morph rapidly. We realize that there is really no beginning or end, it is our mind that creates the illusion.

We learned these from our own experience detailed below:

One man, thirty machines and endless working hours

Last year, we contacted Naran when my husband was going through lot of challenges at work. He had been in the new job for two years and doing very well.

Then, the supervisor began adding new machines to the lab. It was one man and 15 machines to begin with. It was manageable.

Each machine was specialized and the chemicals cost a lot of money. If experiments failed, it would be difficult to make up for the loss of valuable samples and the wastage of time and money. It was challenging to finish jobs that were lined up on all of the machines.

The lab ended up with 30 machines and one man. Working continuously made my husband tired and unable to think. And he began to work on weekends too. To make the situation worse, his supervisor began to shout at him.

My husband was threatened that he will be fired

In May last year, the Director called my husband and threatened to remove him. No reasons were given and he was shouted at him for 30 minutes.

My husband was shaken and could not understand what had happened. Naran asked us to chant “I AM A BEING OF VIOLET FIRE. I AM PURITY OF GOD DESIRES.”

Naran also asked us to chant and write— “OM GAM GANAPATHAYE NAMAHA”.

We have continued to do it every day from then on.

The director apologized

Within a week of this chanting, the Director came and apologized to my husband for his outburst. He told my husband that he hope that my husband would not quit because of the outburst.

We were surprised and grateful at the turn of events. We continued to write the Ganesh mantra and be relaxed.

Surprise became Shock

In June, my husband was called again and the Director said he would put him on probation for the job. This really disturbed my husband and he couldn’t sleep or eat.

Naran advised us to write (the Bach Flower Remedies) – “ELM, WATER VIOLET, HOLLY, VINE, HORNBEAM” in a piece of paper and keep it in my husband’s pocket and do the same in another paper and keep it under the pillow. And Naran asked me to chant (Bach Flower Remedies) “RED CHESTNUT, VINE”.

And to improve the working atmosphere, Naran advised my husband to chant the switch words, “LOVE, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE”. My husband began to juggle these new responsibilities. His job was reduced to 75% time from 100%. However, he had to work for 100% of the time.

Now comes a big surprise

Six months later, we had a surprise when the administrators asked people to submit their job descriptions and responsibilities for comparing it with what people were getting paid for across the nation.  My husband’s position was also called for reclassification.  Naran asked us to chant:GENTIAN, LARCH, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE ORDER COUNT NOW DONE”.

Back to square one – problems started again

On December 10th, we returned to the same critical situation when, my husband’s Director called him and made him sign a memorandum saying he would fix all machines within December 20th. My husband had been working with the companies for months and nothing had been resolved. The Director was aware of all this.

Naran advised us to download a picture of MUSTARD (Bach flower) and PINK TOURMALINE (gem remedy) and paste both on the name of my husband. And also chant the switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”.

Everything went smoothly like a whistle

Thanks to these divine interventions, the deadline passed off smoothly without an incident.

But the biggest challenge was negotiating the annual review that was due at the end of the month.  The annual review would determine if he would stay or go. In the current economic market, it was very hard to land another job. Living in the US without citizenship meant that we had to show continuous employment status. We continued to chant TOGETHER CHANGE NOW and write the Ganapathi mantra daily.

Annual review came on the right time

The annual review was postponed to January. It so happened that Divine took care of everything so beautifully. On Thursday, his immediate supervisor completed my husband’s annual review and gave him glowing references. They also discussed about my husband getting more help in the lab, and reinstating his job to 100% from 75% that he is currently on.

Three days later, the Director who was shouting at him all the time, said that there was no need for another review and he had nothing to add or change to the review already performed, and he agreed with everything. Everyone who knows the Director says this is nothing short of a miracle!

 The director accepted his failings openly

Last week, the Director called my husband privately and told him that his personality was that of a person who magnified the negative. From his interactions with my husband he is realizing that he had to appreciate everything positive and not pay so much importance to the negative.

My husband said he politely thanked him and left, but inside he was shouting ‘Together Divine’ in a deafening crescendo. He felt so happy that he didn’t have to say a word for this change to come over! The flowers, gems, the switch words are so beautiful and so powerful!

We successfully sailed through the stressful phase

We are grateful for the divine to have helped us through this difficult and stressful phase. The chants helped us stay focused and positive and not panic. We found time daily to chant ‘Together Divine’ and write ‘Om Gam Ganapathayae Namaha.’

 Lessons learned

  • We understand and are grateful that our future unfolds in small clear steps.
  • We have the opportunity to be watchful, present and steer the direction of our life.
  • Naran taught us patiently and gently to keep our mind open to the gifts that every situation brings in and not carry our old patterns with us.

We are continuing to learn.

Naran

Thank you for sharing. What we need is trust in divinity. Yours has vindicated that. Best of luck!!!

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Dare-to-Do Devi

Devi P

I would like to begin by saying I am not even sure where to start about how the various healing methods of Balakumar have helped me .The changes are so profound and comprehensive since the day I first met him.

To begin with, I had met Naran for the first time through a friend when I was undergoing a major turmoil in my life in terms of my marriage which ended shortly after it began and the following period of Divorce was truly traumatic.

I believe the only reason I emerged unscathed was because of all the healing methods which were taught by him – Reiki, Switch words, Bach flowers, Mind body connection, all of which helped me tremendously.

With Naran’s persistent help I am now on the threshold of a life with another life partner. My perspective on life has changed completely.

I now realize that I was earlier looking for changes outside when what was actually required were change from within.

I trained myself to make all these tools a part of my life and today every single day I incorporate all of them into the daily fabric of my life.

Forgiveness mantra is such a wonderful tool it made me realize that our aggression leads to resistance and only forgiving and letting go can take us forward in life.

It starts when I wake up and chant Divine order several times and then take some Bach remedies every day. There are times I feel low and that is the time when chanting and flowers comes to the rescue without fail.

As for my parents Bach flowers have worked wonders for them my dad was virtually bedridden a couple of years ago and had lost the will to walk or live. His memory was also virtually gone

It was the remedies from Naran which helped him recover to a fair degree and the last year of his life was almost normal.

There were several occasions when the Bach Rescue remedy had helped save the day.

Being an only child I was dreading something happening to my parents but when my dad passed away I was able to accept his death with grace and equanimity only because of all these healing methods.

My mother who has severe Diabetic and is also suffering from depression has also been graced by these remedies.

I have referred several of my friends and relatives to Naran and all of them have benefited without fail and something dramatic has always happened in their lives.

I thank Naran, Reiki, Bach flowers, Mantras, Eft, Forgiveness mantra for coming into my life and enriching it so much.

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Period of Silence

Kiran

Your concept for HELPING EACH OTHER is really great. It will give us joy of helping others and develop compassion for each other too.

However, we are missing you a lot.

When I think about you, a song comes in my mind: “TU PYAAR KA SAGAAR HAI TERI EK BOOND KE PYAASE HUM”. Its English translation is, “”You are an ocean of love. We are thirsty for a single drop of love”.

Hope to see you on blog. Not daily, but at least occasionally.

Thanks!

Naran

YES, I will come.

A period of silence is necessary to benefit the self and others. You can hear me in blogs postings.

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