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Rude boss becomes Appreciating boss

Swarna

Sometimes things seem to get worse before it gets better. But in getting worse the situation tests us and strengthens us in ways we cannot imagine or know.

  • All we need to learn is to sit still and watch our mind as the fluid situation morphs, and shifts.
  • We learn to see our fear, guilt, and our negative tendencies.
  • We learn to be watchful, not restful. We understand that growth, life, is characterized by changes.
  • Situations morph rapidly. We realize that there is really no beginning or end, it is our mind that creates the illusion.

We learned these from our own experience detailed below:

One man, thirty machines and endless working hours

Last year, we contacted Naran when my husband was going through lot of challenges at work. He had been in the new job for two years and doing very well.

Then, the supervisor began adding new machines to the lab. It was one man and 15 machines to begin with. It was manageable.

Each machine was specialized and the chemicals cost a lot of money. If experiments failed, it would be difficult to make up for the loss of valuable samples and the wastage of time and money. It was challenging to finish jobs that were lined up on all of the machines.

The lab ended up with 30 machines and one man. Working continuously made my husband tired and unable to think. And he began to work on weekends too. To make the situation worse, his supervisor began to shout at him.

My husband was threatened that he will be fired

In May last year, the Director called my husband and threatened to remove him. No reasons were given and he was shouted at him for 30 minutes.

My husband was shaken and could not understand what had happened. Naran asked us to chant “I AM A BEING OF VIOLET FIRE. I AM PURITY OF GOD DESIRES.”

Naran also asked us to chant and write— “OM GAM GANAPATHAYE NAMAHA”.

We have continued to do it every day from then on.

The director apologized

Within a week of this chanting, the Director came and apologized to my husband for his outburst. He told my husband that he hope that my husband would not quit because of the outburst.

We were surprised and grateful at the turn of events. We continued to write the Ganesh mantra and be relaxed.

Surprise became Shock

In June, my husband was called again and the Director said he would put him on probation for the job. This really disturbed my husband and he couldn’t sleep or eat.

Naran advised us to write (the Bach Flower Remedies) – “ELM, WATER VIOLET, HOLLY, VINE, HORNBEAM” in a piece of paper and keep it in my husband’s pocket and do the same in another paper and keep it under the pillow. And Naran asked me to chant (Bach Flower Remedies) “RED CHESTNUT, VINE”.

And to improve the working atmosphere, Naran advised my husband to chant the switch words, “LOVE, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE”. My husband began to juggle these new responsibilities. His job was reduced to 75% time from 100%. However, he had to work for 100% of the time.

Now comes a big surprise

Six months later, we had a surprise when the administrators asked people to submit their job descriptions and responsibilities for comparing it with what people were getting paid for across the nation.  My husband’s position was also called for reclassification.  Naran asked us to chant:GENTIAN, LARCH, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE ORDER COUNT NOW DONE”.

Back to square one – problems started again

On December 10th, we returned to the same critical situation when, my husband’s Director called him and made him sign a memorandum saying he would fix all machines within December 20th. My husband had been working with the companies for months and nothing had been resolved. The Director was aware of all this.

Naran advised us to download a picture of MUSTARD (Bach flower) and PINK TOURMALINE (gem remedy) and paste both on the name of my husband. And also chant the switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”.

Everything went smoothly like a whistle

Thanks to these divine interventions, the deadline passed off smoothly without an incident.

But the biggest challenge was negotiating the annual review that was due at the end of the month.  The annual review would determine if he would stay or go. In the current economic market, it was very hard to land another job. Living in the US without citizenship meant that we had to show continuous employment status. We continued to chant TOGETHER CHANGE NOW and write the Ganapathi mantra daily.

Annual review came on the right time

The annual review was postponed to January. It so happened that Divine took care of everything so beautifully. On Thursday, his immediate supervisor completed my husband’s annual review and gave him glowing references. They also discussed about my husband getting more help in the lab, and reinstating his job to 100% from 75% that he is currently on.

Three days later, the Director who was shouting at him all the time, said that there was no need for another review and he had nothing to add or change to the review already performed, and he agreed with everything. Everyone who knows the Director says this is nothing short of a miracle!

 The director accepted his failings openly

Last week, the Director called my husband privately and told him that his personality was that of a person who magnified the negative. From his interactions with my husband he is realizing that he had to appreciate everything positive and not pay so much importance to the negative.

My husband said he politely thanked him and left, but inside he was shouting ‘Together Divine’ in a deafening crescendo. He felt so happy that he didn’t have to say a word for this change to come over! The flowers, gems, the switch words are so beautiful and so powerful!

We successfully sailed through the stressful phase

We are grateful for the divine to have helped us through this difficult and stressful phase. The chants helped us stay focused and positive and not panic. We found time daily to chant ‘Together Divine’ and write ‘Om Gam Ganapathayae Namaha.’

 Lessons learned

  • We understand and are grateful that our future unfolds in small clear steps.
  • We have the opportunity to be watchful, present and steer the direction of our life.
  • Naran taught us patiently and gently to keep our mind open to the gifts that every situation brings in and not carry our old patterns with us.

We are continuing to learn.

Naran

Thank you for sharing. What we need is trust in divinity. Yours has vindicated that. Best of luck!!!

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Pink is for getting a job, not losing one

Definition of Pink Slip: A notice of dismissal from employment.

Mrs. AR, March 5

I am in a great problem. From 1999 my husband’s job is not permanent, one way or the other he has to quit his job.

Now my financial position is very tight since there was no salary for the past four months and he is searching for the job.

Kindly suggest me a remedy to get a job and for my financial position.

Naran

Chant “ELM, MUSTARD, PINK TOURMALINE, COUNT NOW” as many times as possible, and whenever you can.

Mrs. AR, March 20

Namaste! My husband got a good job according to your guidance.

Explanation 

The gem remedy Pink tourmaline is definitely for abundance. Pink Tourmaline stabilizes the Mooladhara Chakra – the Chakra that gives us stability in our life

Elm and Mustard are Bach Flower Remedies, used as switch words here.

To handle the overwhelming situation: Elm

Finding to solution to the money problems (they are in the dark): Mustard

To find money now: Count, Now

Neighbor’s Welfare is Our Welfare too

Haripriya

I want to share with you all my experiences based on the guidance given in Naran’s Blogs.

Wolf is my all time favourite

I am taking help of the animal spirit guides WOLF, KING FISHER, JELLY FISH, and CHIMPANZEE.

WOLF is my all time favourite. My day starts with talking to wolf. It organizes my day.  And when I go to bed I thank Wolf for all the good things, thoughts, and actions as well as for directing me.

The Amazing Bach Flower Remedies

I’ve given RESCUE REMEDY to my neighbour’s daughter suffering from fever. The fever stopped increasing and by the next day the girl was ok. I thanked the Rescue remedy.

Next time my neighbour was suffering with a severe headache and she asked for the medicine. I gave her AGRIMONY and WHITE CHESTNUT. She got relief and she could sleep well. She thanked me and I said “SURYAYA SWAHA SURYAYA IDHAM NA MAMA” mantra (offering everything to Sun God)

My cousin had skin allergy on the neck and it was red and he could not turn his neck due to pain. I gave him RESCUE REMEDY, and CRAB APPLE. After three days, he said he is relieved and no indication of skin allergy.

 The Bach flowers are amazing. I keep sharing your Mantras, Mudras and Bach flower remedies with my colleagues.

The Best Exercise for the World

The best part is nowadays whenever I am talking I am being conscious. If I blame anyone then immediately I am doing the FORGIVING EXERCISE.

Somebody blames someone and wants to involve me I am able to tell them that we should not blame and it is not our job.

And if I feel pain in the body then immediately I am trying to analyze the situation as per your website and then affirming “I release my past. I am at peace and my future is being taken care of by the divine” or “Everything is happening as per the divine order. I am not the doer”.

This makes me feel peace inside.

Thanks Naran

But for your guidance, my life would not have been changed. You are giving direction to progress spiritually. Thank you so much!!!

Miracle out of nowhere

Vinita

I am feeling guilty to write to you.  I had been referred for some interviews and waiting for results. I am unable to wait further due to desperation and need for money badly. I am in a fix without a job. How to survive here?

I had been trough your website and saw about Gem Therapy and essence.  EFT etc., will any of these help me? Why am I going through this, in spite of my sincere efforts to get a job?

Naran, please give me a remedy that will get me a job to survive. Will I need to come in person to take any healing?  Will I come out of this situation?

My husband Rajiv is also undergoing a lot of pain physically and emotionally. We don’t have money to meet our basic needs. For two months I have lived in my sister’s place to manage my survival. Rajiv is working very hard, but still the pressure and need for money is not resolved.

Naran, please bring us out of this please!!! Rajiv is also under depression and a high BP.

We really feel we could end our lives, but for our son…Please help us.

Looking forward your response,

Naran S. Balakumar

Take the Bach Flower Remedies Sweet Chestnut, 3 doses daily. You will come out of your problems very soon. Chant Namashivayam regularly for 1000 times a day.

Vinita

Few hours after I received your mail, I got an offer letter from Oracle, Bangalore.  I think it’s due to your blessings! Thank you so much.  I am seeing light at the end of the tunnel with your guidance, finally after a long time.

Our son’s school is also getting fixed. Like a miracle, things have started to move. I am joining in Oracle, on 14th June 2010.

Please advise me on what should I chant to perform well in the office as I should keep up the name of the person who referred me to Oracle, as additional responsibility.

I am joining at middle management level and got a pay package, more than expected for my experience. I am very happy. However, I am now very scared to cope up to MNC standards.
I would like to seek solutions /chanting to improve and impress with performance.

Naran S. Balakumar

  1. Continue chanting Namashivayam.
  2. Take Bach Flower Remedies Elm, Larch and Sweet Chestnut regularly for another two months.
  3. Write the switch words Divine On for performance in the office.
  4. Write, “Lalitham Sridharam Lalitham Baskaram Lalitham Sudarshnam”, daily 500 times for next 9 months.

Best of luck for everything in life!!!

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